A Letter from Ireland:

Do You Have an Irish Mammy in Your Life?


Many people have a family matriarch (or an Irish Mammy!), a strong woman whose opinions and guidance shaped the lives of those around her. In this letter, we will be introduced to one Irish Mammy whose exploits formed a character that came to represent a generation of women.

Céad Míle Fáilte – you are very welcome to this week’s Letter from Ireland. We’re up in the north-east of Ireland as I write – hoping to head over to Newgrange in the Boyne Valley in a little while. Have you ever been to this part of Ireland?

It’s a nice and settled at the moment – the weather is sunny, mild and DRY (imagine that!) – so we’re managing to get lots of photos for sharing later. How are things in your part of the world today?

I’m sipping on a cup of Barry’s tea as we speak and I do hope you will now join me now with a cup of whatever you are having yourself.

I was talking to Carina a couple of days back about last week’s letter. In it, we mentioned the Two Graces of County Mayo and we noticed how hard it is to come up with stories and examples of women from Ireland’s past and present. It seems that the tales and accomplishments of Irish women down through the years have been underplayed, unreported and are generally missing from the history books.

“And then we have Mrs Brown’s Boys … not sure how I feel about her.” Carina mentioned. “The thing is, you turn it on and you can’t stop laughing. There’s a lot of truth about Irish Mammies in that creation.”

Carina was talking about the creation of Brendan O’Carroll – featuring the Irish Mammy, Agnes Brown and her family. This comedy draws crowds up to 10 million when it plays on British TV. Just in case you missed it – here is a short clip to give you an idea:

Did you enjoy that? But, let’s move on and look at the life a truly extraordinary Irish woman. Stay with me to the end, and we’ll come full circle.

The Tale of a Real Irish Mammy.

Maureen McHugh was born in Dublin in 1913 to a family of schoolteachers. She attended University College Galway, and was on track to become a schoolteacher herself, when she decided to surprise her family and enter religious orders as a nun instead.

That did not last long as she met and fell in love with Gerard O’Carroll. So, she left the orders and became a schoolteacher in the north side of Dublin City. However, her career was cut short with the birth of their first child. In Ireland at the time, and all the way to the early 1970s, women civil servants had to give up their job as soon as they had their first child. This struck Maureen as desperately unfair, and she decided to do something about it.

Over the following years, Maureen and Gerard had ten children together – and adopted another from a local reform school. So, you might think that she had her hands full by that stage?

However, Maureen was of this nature – whenever she saw an injustice, she acted and did something about it. In the aftermath of World War II, there was a lot of price inflation in food. Maureen felt that the food companies were taking advantage of the situation, and she founded the “Lower Prices Council”. She successfully took a number of companies to court, and forced them to hold their prices steady.

In 1954, she was asked to become a TD (member of parliament) for the Labour Party in north Dublin City. She successfully contested the election, and became the first female TD of the Labour party – as well as chief whip – for the following 4 years.

Her focus was always on improving the lot of woman and children in Irish society – and she had the chance to put a lot of new legislation in place through her new role. Laws like introducing the new short form Birth certificate – so a child could no longer be labelled as “illegitimate” but was noted as “father undeclared” instead. She was also behind a number of laws that aimed to give women the same rights as men in the eyes of the law.

Her husband, Gerard, died at an early age in 1957 – but even as a lone parent with a young family, she went on to set up a women’s refuge and become a top trade union official. Eventually, she saw that the law requiring women civil servants to give up work on marriage was abolished in the early 70s.

Mrs O’Carroll Meets Mrs Brown.

You might think that Maureen O’Carroll was the polar opposite of the Mrs Brown we saw in that earlier comedy clip. However, while still a member of Irish parliament – Maureen gave birth to her youngest son. Her son was called Brendan O’Carroll – and this is the same Brendan who went on to create, and inhabit, Mrs Brown all those years later.

He maintains that while the world saw his mother as an energetic political and civil rights activist – she was like all mothers to their own children. She was so opinionated and forthright at times, that he remembers wanting to “hide her false teeth” to get a bit of a rest. Or the time she would not come out of a supermarket while he was waiting in the car for her – he rang security to report that she was stealing, which got her out of the shop in fairly quick time. He has many more hilarious stories that also show the incredible love and respect he had for his mother.

So, Maureen would probably be “mortified” if she thought other people considered her the inspiration for “Mrs. Brown” – but I don’t think she has to worry. The positive effects that her own achievements had on the lives of others stand on their own merits.

How about you. Have you had – an “Irish Mammy” in your life? Do leave a comment below and let me know.

Slán for this week,

Mike and Carina : )

  • Sharon McCarthy Frye says:

    Good morning Mike and Carina, looking forward to your photos from this trip, especially if the weather is so good! Just dropping by to say thanks for this great letter to Ireland edition. I have loved this show for a long time. My favorite episode is when Mrs. Brown mistook the spray glue for room deodorizer! Hilarious episode! Wonderful story about his Mom….I bet it was fun to be in that family!
    Safe travels,

    • Mike Collins says:

      Delighted you enjoyed The Letter on the Irish mammy.
      Brendan O’Carroll certainly has fun on that show!

  • Sandy Kennedy Laferriere says:

    Thanks for sharing the story of Brendan O’Carroll and his Mum. I know what you mean Carina, but I do love the show…..all that laughter has to be healthy for sure! 😀

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